By Fredrick P. Niemann, a NJ Estate Planning Attorney
The death of a family member can be one of the most stressful periods of a person’s life. Adding to this stress can be conflict among family members over how to honor the deceased. Where should the funeral be held? Who will pay for it? Should the body be buried or cremated? These and many more questions must be answered by family members if the decedent did not elect to create a will or trust indicating their wishes. Unfortunately, family members sometimes disagree as to how the situation should be handled, adding controversy to this already stressful period. Proper estate planning, whether it be creating a will or trust, can help you ensure your wishes are honored and help avoid any disputes among family members
New Jersey law states that if a deceased individual has not indicated their wishes in a will or trust, the disposition of the body is to be determined by the individual with the highest priority from the following:
1. The surviving spouse or partner in a domestic partnership or civil union;
2. The majority of any surviving adult children of the deceased;
3. Surviving parent or parents;
4. The majority of any surviving brothers and sisters of the deceased;
5. Any other relatives of the decedent, with priority given to closer relatives;
6. Anyone else acting on behalf of the decedent.
As one can imagine, disputes often arise among interested individuals when it comes time to bury a loved one. Different factors uniquely affect each family, but concerns such as religion, money, and location often come into play. Sometimes disputes arise when there is a second marriage involved, particularly when there are children from both marriages. A properly crafted will or trust will make sure your wishes are met and help avoid any controversy among your family members. Estate planning is a crucial tool that cannot be underestimated. You owe it not only to yourself, but to your loved ones as well to appropriately plan for your funeral and burial arrangements.
Fredrick P. Niemann is an experienced Estate Planning Attorney who has practiced throughout the state of New Jersey. He encourages you to contact him immediately if you have any questions regarding the process of setting up a trust or will. He can be reached toll-free at 855-376-5291 or by email at fniemann@hnlawfirm.com. He looks forward to hearing from you.